As school counsellors and pastoral carers, your role often intersects with family dynamics, particularly during challenging times like family breakdowns. Understanding the implications of separation on children and families is crucial. This session aims to give you an overview of Family Law Orders and how they impact students and schools, Family Violence and Intervention Orders, and your rights and responsibilities regarding providing information to parents and third parties. We’ll also look at how to integrate this knowledge into the systems and processes you use in your school, to ensure that there are clear guides for decision making.
What you will learn
This session will provide you with a comprehensive overview of family law as it relates to your work, including:
- Understanding Agreements and Court Orders: Explore informal arrangements, parenting plans, and court orders, including their implications for children and families.
- Interpreting Family Court Orders: Learn the difference between Family Court Orders and Parenting Plans and how these affect your interactions with families.
- Parenting Orders vs. Parenting Plans: Learn how Family Court Orders can impact school obligations and dictate the obligations of parents, including the consequences of non-compliance.
- Parental Responsibility: Clarify the concept of parental responsibility, including day-to-day decision-making and long-term planning for children.
- Learn from examples of different Court Orders or parenting agreements: Understand the legal directives issued by the court or informal agreements made between parties that concern a child’s care
- Legislative changes: Be aware of legislative changes fundamental to the operation of family law, the reasons for their implementation, and how they may impact your interactions with clients.
- Addressing Family Violence and Intervention Orders: Gain insights into the legal framework surrounding family violence and how to navigate your obligations
- Navigating Separated Parents: Learn which parent can consent to counselling where there is family separation, what rights parents have to information and how to manage varied conflicts.
- Your Rights and Responsibilities: Receive clarity on what to do if you are subpoenaed and understand what information you can provide to parents and other parties involved.
- Systems and processes: Develop an understanding of how to apply this knowledge in a range of situations within a school (and school counselling) context
Equip yourself with the knowledge and tools to support your students during challenging family situations
This course includes:
- 2hr video
- Slides + resources
- Access at any time
Who is it for?
- School Psychologists
- School counsellors
Presented by:
- Dr Matt O'Connor
- Bec Dahl
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Meet your presenters!
Dr Matt O’Connor
Clinical and School Psychologist
Dr Matt O’Connor is a Clinical and School Psychologist, Board-Approved Supervisor, and Director of ConnectEd Counselling and Consultancy—a Brisbane-based clinic supporting young people, families, and schools. With experience across clinical, educational, and organisational settings, Matt brings a deep understanding of the real-world challenges facing school-based professionals.
His areas of expertise are in supporting school psychologists, counsellors, and pastoral care staff to navigate the layered dynamics of school systems, where limited time, complex relationships, and competing demands can make the work especially challenging.
Matt’s work focuses on implementing practical, sustainable approaches to student wellbeing, including the design of effective school counselling systems, early intervention initiatives, and whole-school pastoral care frameworks. He helps schools create clear, usable processes that align with best practice.
A sought-after presenter, Matt has delivered over 1,000 workshops, presentations and keynotes for schools, universities, and organisations across Australia, combining academic insight with practical strategies that genuinely support those working on the ground.
Rebecca (Bec) Dahl
Lawyer
Bec practices exclusively in Family Law and has a keen interest in promoting access to justice for the LGBTIQA+ community and specialises in providing legal guidance for rainbow families on various legal matters including donor agreements, parentage, assisted reproduction, IVF and relationship separation.
She also has extensive experience in marital and de facto property disputes, and preparing Binding Financial Agreements both during relationships, and post separation as well as assisting clients involved in Intervention Order proceedings in the Magistrates Court.
Bec is a trained Collaborative Practitioner and relishes the opportunity to assist clients in this non-litigious form of dispute resolution.
In addition, Bec provides advice to clients and representation in relation to all other legal issues arising from family law and relationship breakdown including:
- Divorce
- Same sex relationships
- Children and parenting matters
- Child support
- Spousal maintenance
Bec also has experience in the Children’s Court jurisdiction both in Victoria and South Australia and is able to provide advice and support to clients involved in these systems.
As a product of her passion for access to justice within the LGBTIQA+ community, Bec is heavily celebrated in the advocacy space. Bec is a regular presenter on JOY 94.9, Australia’s LGBTIQA+ community media organisation. As a testament to her contributions to the LGBTIQA+ advocacy space, Bec is the recipient of numerous nominations at the GLOBE Community Awards. Bec has also spoken at national conferences on legal issues impacting the LGBTIQA+ community.
Bec is also a member of the Leadership Team of the Victorian Chapter of Pride in Law.


