PASTORAL CARERS
Practical professional learning and mentoring for pastoral carers
Practical support designed specifically for the realities of pastoral care — whether you want structured learning through our on-demand PD library or one-to-one mentoring to think through the challenges that are specific to your role and school.
22 on-demand PD sessions • 12 months access • individual mentoring
Two ways to support your pastoral practice
Build your knowledge independently through the PD library, or use individual mentoring to work through the situations, decisions and systems that are specific to your role. Many pastoral staff use both.
22 ON-DEMAND SESSIONS
Pastoral carers PD library
Practical professional learning across student support, role clarity, relationships, risk, systems and sustainable pastoral practice.
- 22 school-specific sessions
- 12 months of access
- Learn in any order and revisit anytime
- Practical strategies for day-to-day work
$350 + GST
INDIVIDUAL MENTORING
One-to-one mentoring
A practical thinking space for the parts of pastoral care that do not fit neatly into a webinar — role decisions, difficult situations, leadership, team dynamics and the systems around your work.
- One-to-one support
- Tailored to your role and school
- Practical problem-solving and reflection
- Online or in person by arrangement
Flexible individual support
WHY CONNECTED
PD that understands the job you actually do
Pastoral care sits across relationships, behaviour, wellbeing, families, teaching staff and school systems. The library is built around that complexity.
Built for schools
Created around the realities of pastoral care in school settings — not generic wellbeing PD.
Practical, not abstract
Tools, language, decisions and frameworks you can take back into your work straight away.
Students + systems
Support for direct student work as well as the processes, teams and school systems around it.
Sustainable practice
Build confidence and capability while keeping role clarity, boundaries and staff wellbeing in view.
ON-DEMAND PROFESSIONAL DEVELOPMENT
A PD library built around the realities of pastoral care
Access 22 sessions covering the areas pastoral carers encounter across direct student support, professional boundaries, relationships, risk and wider school systems.
01
Role clarity & boundaries
02
Practical counselling skills
03
Risk, safety & escalation
04
Student wellbeing & distress
05
Relationships & families
06
Systems, processes & data
07
Collaboration across school
08
Leadership & sustainable care
NOT SURE WHERE TO START?
Choose the problem you are trying to solve
Start with role clarity, practical conversations, risk and escalation, team systems, relationships or sustainable practice — then build out from there.
A simple approach:
Pick one current pressure point → complete the most relevant session → apply one change → return to the library when the next need arises.
SESSION LIBRARY
Browse sessions from the pastoral carers library
Select a session to expand a practical overview and key learning areas. The library contains 22 on-demand sessions; the detailed source material available for this page names the sessions below.
Clarify the responsibilities and boundaries of pastoral care, address gaps between perceived and actual roles, and strengthen communication and collaboration across the pastoral team.
Key learning:
- Define role responsibilities and decision-making boundaries.
- Communicate the role clearly with colleagues, students and parents.
- Maintain professional boundaries and personal wellbeing.
- Improve collaboration and consistency across the pastoral care team.
Build practical skills for student conversations while keeping a clear distinction between pastoral care and counselling.
Key learning:
- Use active listening, emotion coaching and problem-solving skills.
- Communicate effectively with students about mental health and wellbeing.
- Manage role boundaries and know when escalation is needed.
- Respond sensitively to difficult disclosures including abuse, self-harm and suicidal thoughts.
A structured approach to identifying, assessing and managing significant self-harm and suicide risk within a school context.
Key learning:
- Strengthen pre-planning and school risk-management processes.
- Identify risk and implement immediate management strategies.
- Coordinate communication and ongoing support plans with key stakeholders.
- Use debriefing, reflection and postvention planning to improve future responses.
Learn how to collect, interpret and apply student wellbeing data so it leads to useful decisions rather than simply more data.
Key learning:
- Design meaningful questions and select appropriate collection methods.
- Identify patterns and make data-informed decisions.
- Use findings to develop targeted interventions.
- Evaluate and adapt pastoral care practices over time.
Use technology to improve the efficiency and consistency of pastoral care processes, documentation and communication.
Key learning:
- Improve digital record-keeping and communication workflows.
- Template and automate routine tasks where appropriate.
- Reduce avoidable administrative workload.
- Consider AI tools while maintaining privacy standards.
Develop sustainable ways of working that protect professional boundaries and reduce the risk of burnout in demanding pastoral roles.
Key learning:
- Recognise personal and role-specific burnout risks.
- Establish and hold sustainable professional boundaries.
- Embed wellbeing practices into everyday routines.
- Strengthen communication, psychological safety and work-life balance.
Strengthen school-home partnerships and build confidence in the conversations that can become difficult or emotionally charged.
Key learning:
- Build positive parent relationships and set clear expectations.
- Navigate conversations about behaviour, mental health and wellbeing.
- Manage parent-school tensions constructively.
- Maintain effective ongoing family engagement.
Move beyond simple ‘technology is good/bad’ narratives and support healthier, more realistic digital habits for young people.
Key learning:
- Understand technology’s impact on wellbeing in a balanced way.
- Respond to excessive or inappropriate technology use.
- Engage parents in constructive conversations about digital habits.
- Support realistic school guidelines, digital literacy and self-regulation.
Support students navigating separation, conflict and other family stressors with compassion, clarity and consistent school processes.
Key learning:
- Understand how family stress can affect students at school.
- Clarify what the school role is — and is not.
- Communicate carefully with students and families in sensitive situations.
- Strengthen school-wide processes for coordinated support.
Understand how academic pressure and perfectionism can affect young people, and how school messages and practices can either reduce or reinforce the problem.
Key learning:
- Identify patterns of unhelpful academic pressure and perfectionism.
- Use balanced, process-focused messages about achievement.
- Support goal setting, coping and resilience.
- Review school practices that may unintentionally reinforce excessive pressure.
Recognise different presentations of emotional distress and use a tiered approach to decide what level of school support is appropriate.
Key learning:
- Recognise internalising, externalising and less obvious signs of distress.
- Match support to level of need using a tiered framework.
- Engage students, families and teachers in coordinated responses.
- Know when and how to collaborate with external mental health services.
Improve the way teaching and pastoral systems work together so student support is clearer, more consistent and less dependent on individual relationships.
Key learning:
- Understand common pressure points between curriculum and pastoral priorities.
- Strengthen communication and referral pathways.
- Embed pastoral care more consistently across the school.
- Build practical networks of shared responsibility for student support.
Support students to understand and navigate friendships, boundaries, consent and relationship difficulties across online and offline contexts.
Key learning:
- Use clear language for healthy relationship expectations.
- Respond to disclosures, boundary violations and relationship breakdowns.
- Support reflection, repair and safer future choices.
- Consider developmental and social context, including digital relationships.
Understand the emotional demands of caring roles and strengthen sustainable practices for individuals and teams.
Key learning:
- Recognise compassion fatigue, burnout and secondary trauma.
- Notice early warning signs in yourself and colleagues.
- Use practical audit and reflection tools.
- Identify realistic next steps for more sustainable care.
Position pastoral care as a whole-school culture and system, not simply a collection of individual conversations.
Key learning:
- Distinguish pastoral care, counselling and discipline roles.
- Strengthen the everyday ‘micro-moments’ that build connection.
- Use clear handover language and tiered care.
- Improve structures, role clarity and consistency across the school.
Translate adolescent development, identity, belonging and peer influence into practical everyday responses in pastoral care.
Key learning:
- Understand key developmental changes in adolescence.
- Differentiate expected developmental turbulence from signs of distress.
- Balance empathy with appropriate expectations.
- Use a notice → connect → refer approach when additional support is needed.
Use a structured framework for difficult wellbeing situations while balancing compassion, role clarity, proportionate response and student safety.
Key learning:
- Slow down complex situations using a practical decision framework.
- Balance compassion with boundaries and role clarity.
- Coordinate proportionate responses across staff and services.
- Reduce the risk that complex care becomes unsustainable or fragmented.
Strengthen pastoral leadership through relationships, coaching, shared responsibility and thoughtful decision-making.
Key learning:
- Build trust and influence through relationships.
- Coach and develop the people around you.
- Shape a positive, shared pastoral culture.
- Use data and discernment while sustaining your own leadership practice.
PRICING & ACCESS
Choose the option that fits your team
Individual access is straightforward. Schools can also use discounted group pricing or a whole-school arrangement for larger teams.
INDIVIDUAL MEMBERSHIP
$350 + GST
For one pastoral or wellbeing staff member
- 22 on-demand sessions
- 12 months access
- Choose sessions in any order
- Revisit content throughout the year
GROUP REGISTRATIONS
Group discounts
Available for 3+ staff
Smaller teams can access discounted group pricing, with the exact discount based on the number of staff you register.
- Individual logins
- 12 months access
- School invoice available
- Useful for smaller pastoral teams
WHOLE-SCHOOL MEMBERSHIP
$2,500 + GST
For larger school wellbeing teams
One school arrangement providing access across the two specialist ConnectEd School PD libraries.
- Pastoral Carers library
- School Psychologists & Counsellors library
- 12 months access
- Simple school invoicing
FEATURED PRESENTERS
School expertise, practical focus
The library draws on presenters with direct experience of the work and a strong focus on practical application in school settings.
Dr Matt O’Connor
Clinical and School Psychologist
Dr Matt O’Connor is a Clinical and School Psychologist, academic and Director of ConnectEd Counselling and Consultancy. His work has a strong focus on school-based psychological services, particularly the systems, processes and role clarity that help wellbeing teams work effectively. He also provides supervision and consultancy to psychologists, counsellors, pastoral care staff and school leaders, with an emphasis on practical approaches that can be applied in real school settings
David Rushmore
Pastoral care leadership presenter
David Rushmore is an experienced educator and senior school leader. He brings extensive experience in pastoral care, student wellbeing and school leadership, with a particular interest in building strong relationships, positive team cultures and sustainable approaches to supporting young people within schools. David provides individual mentoring and support for pastoral carers, and school leaders, with a strong focus on creating an opportunity for reflection and growth in your professional work
INDIVIDUAL MENTORING
A thinking partner for complex pastoral roles
Pastoral roles can be broad, relational and surprisingly complicated. Individual mentoring gives you a place to slow the issue down, get another perspective and work out what a useful next step actually looks like in your school.
This is not therapy or formal clinical supervision. It is practical, reflective support for education professionals who want a thoughtful outside perspective on their work.
One-to-one
A private space focused on your role, context and current challenges.
Practical + reflective
Think through the issue, test assumptions and identify realistic next steps.
School-specific
Support that understands pastoral care, education systems and role boundaries.
Flexible focus
Bring a one-off problem or use mentoring as ongoing professional support.
What mentoring can help with
You do not need to arrive with a polished goal. Bring the thing that is taking up too much thinking space and we can work from there.
01
Role clarity & boundaries
Work through what sits within your role, where the edges are, and how to communicate those boundaries clearly.
02
Complex student & family situations
Slow down situations that feel messy, emotionally loaded or difficult to coordinate and identify proportionate next steps.
03
Systems & team processes
Think about referral pathways, documentation, escalation, communication and how the wider pastoral system is functioning.
04
Leadership & sustainable practice
Support for pastoral leaders navigating staff dynamics, workload, decision-making, culture and the emotional demands of the role.
How a mentoring session works
1
Bring the challenge
A role question, difficult situation, team issue, system problem or something you are simply stuck on.
2
Unpack the context
Look at the people, pressures, boundaries, responsibilities and options around the issue.
3
Leave with next steps
Finish with clearer thinking and practical actions that fit your school rather than a generic coaching script.
Not a generic coaching script
The point is not to force your work into a pre-set model. Mentoring is shaped around the actual problem in front of you and draws on psychology, education and systems thinking to help you make sense of it.
Want a thinking partner for the tricky parts of the role?
Explore ConnectEd’s individual mentoring and coaching for education professionals, or get in touch to discuss whether it would fit what you are looking for.
WHOLE-SCHOOL MEMBERSHIP
Support the whole wellbeing team
Give pastoral staff, psychologists and counsellors access to role-specific learning under one school arrangement.
$2,500 + GST
12 months access across both specialist PD libraries.
Designed for larger wellbeing teams and schools that want one simple membership and invoice.